Kate Middleton’s strict four-word code she uses for her kids when they’re in trouble

Kate Middleton has a unique phrase she uses when disciplining her children, and it’s remarkably effective.

As they grow older, Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis are attending more public events and Royal Family fans often comment on how well-behaved the trio is. However, if Kate feels they’re not behaving appropriately, she uses four specific words to keep them in check.

In his book Gilded Youth, An Intimate History of Growing Up in the Royal Family, royal expert Tom Quinn noted: “When Prince Louis misbehaved at the late Queen’s Platinum Jubilee for example, by sticking his tongue out at his mother, Kate’s reaction was praised by a team of expert commentators.

“She apparently used a secret code to calm the children, as she does on occasions – she simply says ‘let’s take a break’. But as a former staffer explained, the children know these few words carry far more weight than we might imagine.” That being said, Kate reportedly “doesn’t worry” too much about their behavior because she loves to see her children just being children.

“Louis is an energetic child and clearly was unable to contain his excitement at being at a public event,” a source told OK, referring to the Wales family’s appearance at the 2024 Trooping the Color. “Kate doesn’t worry about their behavior too much. She loves to see them being kids.”

In fact, William and Kate even poked fun at Louis’ cheeky antics at the Queen’s Platinum Jubilee in a special thank you note after the event. The young prince was evidently the life of the party, a fact not lost on his amused parents.

“What a fantastic weekend of celebrations,” they penned. “Seeing people across the nation coming together with family, friends and loved ones has been extremely special. Thank you to everyone who turned out to show their gratitude to The Queen and her inspiring 70 years of leadership. From the crowds on the Mall to communities hosting street parties up and down the country, we hope you had a weekend to remember. We all had an incredible time, especially Louis…”

It’s said that William and Kate place a huge emphasis on open dialogue when it comes to parenting. When one of their children is grappling with big feelings or a temper flare-up, William and Kate opt for a ‘sofa chat’ rather than isolation.

This approach ensures that the child isn’t left alone with their emotions but instead receives guidance to process the situation. Additionally, the couple adheres to a ‘no shouting’ policy. Any child who raises their voice is gently removed from the scene, and likewise, William and Kate maintain calm voices even when disciplining their brood.